Mr Holland's Opus: Lessons to live by.

• Demand excellence.  Don't just settle for acceptable.
• Don't expect anything from anyone unless you are willing to give of yourself.
• Do deeper than skin deep.
• It is OK to allow others into the intimate moments of your life.
• Kudos are important.  Take the time to recognize achievements in the lives of those around you.
• There are no limits to what can be accomplished.  Makes sure that you do not accidentally (or intentionally) impose limits on others that prevent them from dreaming big dreams.
• Memento's are important.  They remind us of the trials we have been through and the struggles we have triumphed over.
• Kids need to hear that they are good at something.  Discover what it is and TELL THEM.
• Know the boundaries - do not cross them - EVER!
• Don't neglect your family in order to do "Important things".  Your family IS the Important Thing!
• Don't let it take a tragedy to finally get your attention.