Demand excellence. Don't just settle for acceptable.
Don't expect anything from anyone unless you are willing to give of yourself.
Do deeper than skin deep.
It is OK to allow others into the intimate moments of your life.
Kudos are important. Take the time to recognize achievements in the lives of those around you.
There are no limits to what can be accomplished. Makes sure that you do not accidentally (or intentionally) impose limits on others that prevent them from dreaming big dreams.
Memento's are important. They remind us of the trials we have been through and the struggles we have triumphed over.
Kids need to hear that they are good at something. Discover what it is and TELL THEM.
Know the boundaries - do not cross them - EVER!
Don't neglect your family in order to do "Important things". Your family IS the Important Thing!
Don't let it take a tragedy to finally get your attention.